^ ….first of all, run on sentences….second of all, don’t hookup with guys in clubs then. wear jeans, sneakers and a shirt. tell the guy you can’t go on a date until he asks for your parents permission. don’t have sex if you don’t want to. go to places where people actually slow dance. you can’t go to a club and expert people to slow dance. i understand the point of this post, but you could simply change everything listed above to the way you want it. also, there are plenty of people who feel the same way and actually live their lives that way. love still exists.